小马过河的故事

Aug.26又要去香港了。今天一个同事问我:香港好玩不好玩。我愣了一下,觉得不太好回答,就给我同事讲了一个故事:从前有一只小马,来到一条河边,要过河。但他不知道河水有多深,于是他去问小象河水深不深,小象说:河水很浅,我淌着就过去了。小马又去问小羊河水深不深,小羊说:河水很深,千万别去,上次差点把我冲走。最后小马自己去过了一下河,才发现,河水不深不浅,他正好可以渡过河去。

香港好玩不好玩这种问题,其实和“河水深不深”是同类的问题。很多人都知道小马过河的故事所表达的寓意,但还是一直会有人问类似“河水深不深”的问题。比如,常有人问“去美国念书到底好不好”、“某某某公司到底好不好”、“某某书好看不好看”等等。

其实,用另一句类似意思的话来说,对于此类问题,应该是“冷暖自知”的。

Comments on “小马过河的故事

  1. eapass August 18, 2004 12:37 AM

    这个道理人人都懂。

    我想你同事主要是问问“你”的看法。然后他再根据你的兴趣、爱好等等做一个初步的判断。就像小马一样,他问了小象和小羊之后可以根据情况做一个初步的判断。

    做一个假设:小马说深,小羊也说深,我想小马估计就没有必要去试了吧。

    楼下的朋友认为呢?

  2. benny August 18, 2004 07:11 PM

    你的同事其实是想知道你是小象还是小羊。
    或者想知道你此行的目的——是玩风景还是玩其他的什么,呵呵。

  3. hehe August 18, 2004 10:01 PM

    探讨、探讨问题,何必那么认真哪?

    替你朋友说的,呵呵!

  4. hpying December 16, 2006 02:19 PM

    人都喜歡拿來作對比,只要表達一下自己的意見,
    別人的選擇讓他們自己決定吧.呵呵.

  5. A passerby April 23, 2007 02:16 AM

    I am very often like the little horse in the story.But I think this time your friend just wants to ask for your opinion and then according to your answer and his understanding about you,he will make his own decision.After all,he finally make a decision by himself.Personally,I think,there is no very obvious link between the story and this experience.But the truth revealed by the story is very good.What seemes suitable for others may not be suitable for us.We finally know something only after we have tried it by ourselves.

  6. NATSUME50 May 25, 2007 02:00 PM

    应该是小松鼠……

  7. NATSUME50 May 25, 2007 02:00 PM

    应该是小松鼠……

  8. cc May 25, 2007 06:09 PM

    hehe

  9. you September 16, 2007 02:59 PM

    abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz

  10. November 20, 2007 10:54 PM

    老牛和松鼠

  11. November 21, 2007 04:40 PM

    The story is very good for us .if you not try it by yourself ,you will not understand forever.But we do not need to try it anytime.We could do a decision by our friends's experiment sometimes.
    Everything has two decides,so we should research to know how can we master the truth!

  12. November 26, 2007 06:29 PM

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  13. February 24, 2008 10:46 AM

    别人的知识经验也是财富

  14. Vince April 24, 2008 11:27 AM

    It happened, when my sister was being transfered to our group's new facility in liuzhou. before she decided whether to go, a lot people talked about the advantage and disadvantage of working there, the environment and everything, she was in two minds. so, friends came up with this "little horse" story, "go find out yourself", this a very good story, follow your heart and trust your own experience

  15. April 27, 2008 01:16 PM

    xiaomaguohe


  16. May 21, 2008 04:46 PM

    你同事跟你寒暄而已。。。。。。

  17. sunny September 4, 2008 08:30 PM

    yes

  18. lin September 15, 2008 02:30 AM

    小马只是过河那么简单如果河水深的话他还可以回上来但生活中你要是没把握的事情去尝试了而这个结果又不是你想的那样那不是很亏了???

  19. January 31, 2010 11:23 AM

    呵呵,你的同事问你你香港好不好玩,跟这小马过河的意义不一样,那应该只是一种关心,一种问候。他关心的是你到香港玩得开不开心呢?而不一定就是想知道香港好不好玩。

  20. dear August 29, 2016 08:12 PM

    故事挺好!但是我还是想知道你心中的感受~

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