1. 在Banian的Blog上看到《Runaway Bride》里面的两段Ika对Maggie（就是那个三次逃婚的新娘）说的台词，觉得似乎就是我自己的心里话：
(i) I guarantee that we'll have tough times. And I guarantee that at some point one, or both of us, will want to get out. But I also guarantee that if I don't ask you to be mine, I'll regret it for the rest of my life because I know in my heart, you're the only one for me.
(ii) You want a man who'll lead you down the beach with his hand over your eyes just so you can discover the feel of sand under your feet. You want a guy that'll wake you up at dawn because he's bursting to talk to you. Can't wait another minute, just to find out what you'll say.
2. 在胡祖忻的Blog上看到她谈到回国后这一年中经历的情感的跌宕：
这一年里我流的泪几乎要超过我在国外三年所有流过的泪，难道是我用自己的母语思考生活后，思想里善感的深处被触及到，让自己变得敏感脆弱起来？
我觉得有些道理。反过来说，人到了非母语的环境中，或许是会变得冷漠、坚强、无情起来？
3. 在Wendy JJ的Blog看到她记叙她和小姐妹那天晚上出去逛街喝茶的感受，满惬意的。后面有个人的comment让我觉得说出了我所想的：
享受悠闲生活当然比享受奢侈生活便宜得多。要享受悠闲的生活只要一种艺术家的性情，在一种全然悠闲的情绪中，去消遣一个闲暇无事的下午。
林语堂《生活的艺术》
我就是经常会这样子，“在一种全然悠闲的情绪中，去消遣一个闲暇无事的下午”，或许在后海边上、南锣鼓巷、星巴克，或者瑞金宾馆里的咖啡馆，或者外滩12号里面的Bonomi。我就喜欢这样子悠闲的生活，而不是奢侈的生活。就算将来很有钱了，我还是喜欢这样子。
苏东坡的弟弟 其实是苏撤
说过闲遐的一天等于过了两天
这才是真正的长寿
“因过竹院逢僧话， 又得浮生半日闲。”
其实忙碌也可以很快乐
但毕竟不是人生的意义所在
没有闲暇的日子 没有放松的心情
又怎么可以呢？
“有个人的comment”
it's me and i'm very pleased to share the wonderful sentence.
> 难道是我用自己的母语思考生活后，思想里善感的深处被触及到，让自己变得敏感脆弱起来？
> 人到了非母语的环境中，或许是会变得冷漠、坚强、无情起来？
Immigrating or studying overseas, the priority is to make a living ... often there is no time for self-reflection.
But once settling down, as one experienced the ups and downs of life and became maturely old, the sense of belonging and believing will hit you. Then you would start to look backward, reflect, and then move forward. It is beyond whether you are in a mother-tongue surroundings.
My two cents.
jennifer ,so great.
both viewpoint and leterary talent.
郁闷，我也是第一天就上路了，好怕，教练一直要我加速，加上速度了，有几回自己控制的太慢，急刹车，吓死我了
教练一直吗我胆小，郁闷
在国外会让脆弱的自己变的坚强起来。
但也会异常敏感。